Want to stop feeling stuck and get after what's possible?

Hey, I'm Wendi Wray. I'm on mission to help veterans feel better and get after it.


feeling better than happy, more connected, less overwhelmed and taking consistent steps towards transforming your life inside out. 


That's what happened to me. 


Burnt-out? Been there. Anxious? Been there too. I started self-coaching in 2018, and I've been coaching other veterans ever since.

Today, I know what it takes to manage my most powerful weapon (the mind) and take consistent steps towards changing my life.

You can too…


Ready to get after it? 5..4..3..2..1


Do you sometimes feel motivated and even determined to feel better and focus on changing your life?

But as soon as your military uniform comes off... you feel stuck and overwhelmed?

I've been there. And let me tell you... Once I realized ONE thing, everything changed. Wanna know what it is? Okay, here goes... 


It's not you or your career, it's your brain. 


Either you take control of your mind or your mind will take control of you. It's that simple. 

That's how I went from surviving to thriving on purpose, by retraining my mind. 

Watch my Mind Management Masterclass below. 



teach exactly how your brain works and how to manage it.


I teach you how to overcome burnout and feel better inside out. 


teach you how to take massive action towards the change you want to make in your life. 

Telisa W.

Lieutenant Colonel, Army

Our coaching sessions were very helpful! You really helped me changed the way I think and how I viewed certain things . Keep up the great work!






Mark S.

Captain, Army

Working with Wendi has afforded me a better and more effective perspective on my professional career that has allowed me to be more effective at work, but also more present at home. Somewhat counterintuitive, but her coaching has hugely helped in that area. Her approach is a great mix of thoughtful listening but also a straight shot of truth to the face! Thanks so much!

Andre B.

Sergeant First Class, Army

Coaching really helps me slow down and really reflect on how I'm spending my time, my emotions , and to create boundaries in my relationships so I honor my commitments to myself and others. Wendi genuinely cares about you, won't judge you, is great at pointing out the things you can't see for yourself. She definitely helped me manage all of my emotions that came from transitioning out of the military.

Meet Your Life Coach Wendi

Hello, I'm Wendi! A former Army Officer getting after it in my career while experiencing emotional pain. I felt overwhelmed and stuck in my personal life until I learned how to manage my mind. From that experience I'm on a mission to helping veterans master their emotional intelligence leading them to a happier and more fulfilling life. 

Ready to stop feeling stuck and get after it? 

Join my 1-1 coaching program dedicated for veterans committed to improving their well-being and getting after what's possible;

areas we commonly cover but not limited to include:

  • Improve Relationships: spouse, family, work, self 

  • Master Emotional Health: decrease stress, anxiety, and overwhelm, etc.

  • Let go of Bad Habits: stop overeating, overdrinking, overspending, porn addiction

  • Time Management: overcome burnout

  • Career: transitioning out of the military

I will give you the foundational work to help you manage your thoughts, feelings, and actions. 


You will no longer feel stuck in a battle with your mind or even with yourself.


All you need is a process and some tools to understand your brain so you can get after it without the drama. 


Let's begin training your most powerful weapon...your mind!


I'm ALL in. Are you?


Mind Management Masterclass

Not sure if coaching is right for you? Schedule a free consultation today.


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